5 bedtime habits that might secretly be draining your energy

Have you ever woken up after a full night’s sleep and still felt exhausted?

I’ve been there. For the longest time, I thought being tired all the time just meant I wasn’t sleeping enough.

But after experimenting with my own routines and digging into the research, I realized the truth: it’s not always about the quantity of sleep—it’s about the quality.

The habits we carry into bedtime can quietly rob us of the deep, restorative rest our bodies actually need. And the tricky part? Most of these habits feel harmless in the moment, but they add up, leaving us dragging through the day without really knowing why.

Today, we’re breaking down five such bedtime habits that might be draining your energy without you even realizing it.

Let’s get into them.

1. Scrolling your phone “just for 5 minutes”

We’ve all been there. You hop into bed with every intention of going straight to sleep, but then you grab your phone for a “quick check” of social media or the news.

Five minutes turns into an hour, and suddenly it’s way past your intended bedtime.

The real problem, however, is that staring at screens late at night messes with your sleep and leaves you wiped out the next day. The blue light basically fools your brain into thinking it’s still daytime, which shuts down melatonin—the stuff that helps you sleep—so it’s harder to actually get that deep, good rest you need.

The fix is simple but requires discipline: charge your phone outside the bedroom, or at minimum, put it on airplane mode an hour before sleep. Your future well-rested self will thank you.

2. Eating heavy meals before bed

Ever notice how a big dinner can leave you feeling sluggish the next morning, even after a full night’s sleep?

I learned this the hard way during my university days. I’d often grab a late-night pizza or feast on leftovers right before bed, thinking I was just satisfying hunger. What I didn’t realize was that I was setting myself up for a terrible night’s sleep.

When you eat a heavy meal close to bedtime, your body has to work overtime to digest all that food. Instead of focusing on repair and restoration—what sleep is supposed to do—your system is busy breaking down that pasta or burger you wolfed down.

This not only makes it harder to fall asleep but also prevents you from reaching the deeper stages of sleep where real recovery happens. You might get your eight hours, but the quality is compromised.

Try to finish eating at least three hours before bed. If you’re genuinely hungry later, stick to something light like a small handful of nuts or herbal tea.

3. Going to bed at wildly different times

Maybe you’re in bed by 10 PM on weeknights, then stay up until 2 AM binge-watching Netflix on weekends?

Or perhaps your work schedule is all over the place, so your bedtime shifts by hours from day to day?

Well, when your sleep schedule is erratic, your body never knows when it’s supposed to start winding down and preparing for rest. This means even when you do get enough hours, the quality suffers because your system isn’t primed for sleep.

The solution? Pick a bedtime and stick to it—even on weekends.

4. Overthinking your day and tomorrow’s to-do list

Picture this: you’re lying in bed, physically exhausted, but your mind is racing through everything that happened today and everything you need to do tomorrow.

Did I handle that work situation right? What if I forget that important meeting? Should I have said something different during that conversation?

This mental ping-pong match is energy kryptonite. When your brain is actively problem-solving and worrying, it stays in an alert state that’s the complete opposite of what you need for restorative sleep.

I used to be terrible at this. I’d replay conversations, plan out entire projects, and mentally rehearse difficult conversations—all while trying to fall asleep. No wonder I woke up feeling like I’d been working all night.

Your bedroom isn’t meant to be your second office or therapy session.

Try this: keep a notepad by your bed. When thoughts pop up, quickly jot them down and tell yourself you’ll deal with them tomorrow. This simple brain dump helps signal to your mind that it’s safe to let go and rest.

5. Maintaining a sleep environment that fights against you

This one is a bit sneaky.

Maybe your room is too warm, too bright, or filled with distracting noise. Perhaps you’ve got a pile of laundry staring at you from the chair, or your mattress feels more like a medieval torture device than a place of rest.

Your environment sends powerful signals to your brain about whether it’s time to sleep or stay alert. A cluttered, uncomfortable, or overstimulating space keeps your nervous system on edge, even when you’re physically tired.

I’ve talked about this before, but small environmental tweaks can make a massive difference. Your brain associates your bedroom with either rest or stress based on the cues it receives.

The sweet spot for sleep temperature is around 65-68°F (18-20°C). Invest in blackout curtains or an eye mask to block out light. If noise is an issue, try earplugs or a white noise machine.

And here’s a game-changer: make your bed every morning and keep your bedroom tidy. I’ve found that a peaceful space promotes peaceful sleep, which means you’ll wake up with the energy you actually deserve.